"Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord." -Romans 12:19 Living in a sinful world many times we don't see Justice being served, but we have a promise from God that sin will be punished through God's wrath
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What were you doing in 1983, do you remember?...
- The final episode of M.A.S.H. aired with more than 125 million viewers tuning in to watch.
- The "Just Say No" anti-drug campaign debuted.
- Vanessa Williams becomes the first African-American Miss America.
- Singer Karen Carpenter died of complications from anorexia nervosa at the age of 32.
- Microsoft word was launched.
- Cabbage Patch Dolls are sold in shops and becomes a success.
- President Reagan signed legislation that makes the third monday in January a national holiday commemorating Dr. Martin Luther King's birthday.
- McDonald's introduced the McNugget.
- Tom Brokaw becomes lead anchor for NBC Nightly News.
- Swatch introduces their first watches.
- Star Wars Episode VI: Return of the Jedi, National Lampoons Vacation, and Flashdance were popular films.
- The Police "Every Breath I Take", Johnny Cash, Phil Collins, Duran Duran, Lionel Richie "All Night Long", and Michael Jackson "Beat It and Billy Jean" were popular musicians.
- The A-Team, Mama's Family, He-Man and the Masters of the Universe, Alvin and the Chipmunks, The Outsiders, and Cujo were what people were watching.
It seemed like 1983 was a good year, but not for everyone.
It was the month of October, the people in our small town of Dacusville were getting ready for fall. The leaves would be changing soon to all the beautiful yellows, oranges, and burgundys. The air would turn crisp and cooler, and you would start seeing all the fall decorations being placed around the homes in our community. The Buckner family, part of our Dacusville community, didn't know that on October 4th, 1983 everything was about to change forever for them. Catherine Hester Buckner, aka, Cathy Buckner was a young, carefree, smart, talented, and beautiful girl. Cathy was 16, just starting out her life when a tragic event would end her life before it had the chance to begin.
Cathy Buckner |
The Hyder family were neighbors to the Buckners. Curtis Lee Hyder and his dad helped clear the road to the family cemetery so they could bury Cathy. The Buckners paid $5,000 to the Hyders to have the land cleared. Curtis helped with the whole process, knowing all along he was the one that murdered Cathy.
During the investigation, in The Sumter Daily, "Man charged with Murder of Teen", Sheriff Stone said his deputies had questioned Curtis Hyder on "at least two other occasions during the three month investigation." Stone said Hyder voluntarily came to the sheriff's department Thursday after he was invited by investigators, and a confession was signed minutes later." Curtis was a 22 year old man who confessed to killing Cathy, "Hyder claimed during his trial that he never meant to hurt Miss Buckner, but panicked when she threatened to claim he raped her if he didn't give her $50. He said the incident occurred after the girl asked him for a ride." -The News and Courier, "Court Upholds Life Sentence For Marietta Man"
Curtis Lee Hyder |
Curtis knew all along that he was the one and yet he was able to stand there with shovel in hand waving and smiling while the funeral procession drove to the grave site. Curtis sat at the Buckner's dinner table and ate with them after the funeral, all along knowing that he was the one, he was the one that committed the murder, he was the one that everyone was looking for. They found Cathy with strangled marks around her neck. When they performed the autopsy, they also found water in her lungs. They couldn't prove rape because in 1983, they didn't have tests that they have today.
Every year since 1998 this family has to relive this tragedy. Donna and her family have to go to Columbia to ask that Curtis Lee Hyder not be released from prison on parole. Donna stated, "This murderer should never be released. The devastation that Curtis put our family through, she was the baby of the family, just starting to explore what high school was all about." Every year when they go before the board they ask Curtis why he had to take her life. Donna said," I cannot imagine the fear and pain she must of went through." He went on for three months as though he knew nothing. Donna said, "Not one bit of guilt was about him." When they go before the board each year Donna said that Curtis states that he would like to be released so he can go on with his life, to be a tax paying citizen, and to be with his girlfriend. Donna said, "Cathy doesn't get that chance! So in our heart and mind he should never get out of prison. We feel like he should carry on his life behind the prison walls so he would never be able to hurt another child, or anyone else. We feel as a family that we should have the right to keep our families safe and out of reach of a man who could kill with such vicious determination."
This happened in 1983, but Donna said that Cathy is still very much missed. She said, "Not one day goes by that I don't think of her. I still cry for her knowing the fear and pain she must of felt and the realization that she was going to die." I sat and talked with Donna and you can tell the pain is still so very real for her. Cathy and Donna's parents are passed away but Donna promised her mother that she would continue to go before the parole board every year to keep Curtis in jail.
Has this family experienced Justice for what they have had to endure?
I know this is not a story that makes this a special place to live, but we still live in a special place with special people that come together in a community for one another. I felt like this story needs to be told because I see how Donna pleads for people to please help her and her family by writing to the Parole Board so that Justice can be served. When Donna started out getting people to send letters, 200 were sent, last year 1800 were sent. This family is dear to my heart, I grew up with part of them and my brother dated Cathy for a short time. You can help Donna and her family keep Curtis behind bars by writing a letter to the parole board. Anyone over the age of 18 and from any state can write a letter. Last year Curtis went up for parole in August, so please get those letters in!
The address is:
Department of Probation, Parole, and Pardon Services
2221 Devine St., Suite 300
Post Office Box 50666
*Please include in the letter, Curtis' full name: Curtis Lee Hyder and his SCDC #: 00121482, Cathy's full name: Catherine Hester Buckner
Thank you!
"Rest in Peace my dear sister, I love and miss you so much! 1967-1983"-Donna Kelly Bolt
Please say a prayer for this family, also for Curtis because God desires no one to perish, but "ALL" to come to the saving knowledge of Jesus Christ.
Sources: Major Events of 1983. Year In Review. www.home.ibbsonline.com
What Happened in 1983 in Pop Culture, Prices, and Events. www.thepeoplehistory.com
What Happened in 1983? Crack Open the 80's Time Capsule and Learn. www.liketotally80's
Hey don't know if you remember who I am my name is Tim Ellis I was chuckkeevers friend and I also was her boyfriend for a short time.I used to ride my bike all the way from Talley Bridge rd to see her. I was there on crutches when they
ReplyDeletestarted cutting the rd in.Just wanted to say he best hope he doesn't get out.
I think you should love and forget and forgive.. I spent time in prison with Curtis Hyder... I was his cellmate for 8 years and I got to know Curtis Hyder very well.. Curtis may have done this awful thing but people do change and Curtis is that changed person...He has talked to me about this and he is very sorry for what he done... I think Curtis Hyder should be given a second chance in life because Curtis Hyder is a very good person... I think I would know this because we were like brothers in prison together... Curtis is a very strong willed person and I think he deserves a second chance in life... you need to forgive and forget what happened to your sister... you should stay home and away from his parole hearings and give this man a chance to make something out of his life because he has been punished long enough for this.... STAY AWAY FROM THE HEARINGS AND GIVE HIM A SECOND CHANCE IN LIFE.... EVERYONE DESERVES A SECOND CHANCE,...MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND TOUCH YOUR HEART TO LOVE AND FORGIVE AND FORGET.....I KNOW YOU WILL NEVER FORGET YOUR SISTER BUT FORGIVE CURTIS HYDER.. LIKE GOD HAS FORGIVEN YOU FOR YOUR SINS... THINK ABOUT IT LADY.. PEOPLE LIKE YOU ARE SELFISH AND TOWARDS OTHER'S AND THAT'S NOT VERY CHRISTIAN LIKE...I WILL PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR SELFISHNESS
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Hes rotting in hell now
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